In retrospect, it's not uncommon for us to believe that our past decisions were straightforward and that we should have acted differently. However, as we look back, we must acknowledge that some of the emotions and thoughts we experienced at the time may have faded away.
The saying "Hindsight is 2020" is true but doesn't consider the intricacies of our emotions in those crucial moments. Our bodies react to various factors that influence our decisions, and as time passes, we may forget the clarity we once had.
Why do we tend to criticize ourselves rather than give ourselves credit for past actions? This is because confirmation bias pushes us towards self-criticism (when aimed there) while ignoring the elements that led to our decisions. This is especially prevalent in perfectionists, who view their past choices differently.
However, if we challenge our initial assumptions and take a different perspective, we might discover that our past choices have led us to a better path. Pursuing perfection often leads us to a path that aligns more closely with our true selves. We just don't realize what our true self truly looks like.
As we examine our past decisions, let's embrace the imperfections and complexities of our journey. Let's acknowledge that our feelings, even if forgotten, were valid and influenced our choices. Instead of dwelling on what could have been, let's appreciate the journey and recognize that our imperfect path has unique beauty.
By analyzing our past decisions, we gain self-awareness and the potential for growth and acceptance. In the imperfections, we discover the true essence of our journey.
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